It’s important to remember that communication is a two-way street, and you must work together to make it work and improve communication in your marriage. 

To have good communication in a marriage, both spouses must be open and honest. They should also be willing to listen to and respect each other’s opinions. It’s important to remember that communication is a two-way street, and both spouses must work together to make it work.

The Importance of Communication in a Relationship

Good communication is key to any successful relationship. Whether married, dating, or just friends, things will get messy if you can’t communicate effectively with the other person.

That’s why it’s important to learn how to communicate properly. If you can master the art of communication, your relationships will be much smoother sailing. So what are some tips for improving communication in your marriage? Read on to find out!

6 Tips to Improve Communication in Your Marriage

  1. Talk openly and honestly with your spouse. It is the foundation of good communication in a marriage. If you can’t be open and honest with each other, then communication will break down.
  2. Listen to your spouse. Actively listen to what they’re saying and try to understand their point of view. Don’t just wait for your turn to talk.
  3. Respect your spouse’s opinions. Even if you don’t agree with them, respect them enough to listen and hear them out.
  4. Be willing to compromise. If you can’t agree on something, try to find a middle ground with which you can live.
  5. Communicate effectively with body language. Make sure your body language is sending the right message. Avoid crossing your arms or turning away from your spouse when talking to them.
  6. Take time for communication exercises. You can do many exercises to improve communication in your marriage.

Benefits of Good Communication in a Relationship

Good communication in a relationship allows for the following:

  • Smoother sailing
  • Understanding
  • Respect
  • Compromise
  • Effective communication with body language

Communication Exercises for Couples

Couples can do many communication exercises to improve communication in their marriage. Here are a few examples:

Active Listening Exercise

In this exercise, one person talks while the other listens attentively without interrupting. After the first person is done talking, the other person has a chance to respond and share their thoughts on what was said.

Communication Grid

This exercise involves writing down what you need from your spouse emotionally, physically, and relationally on one side of a piece of paper and then writing down what you think your spouse needs from you on the other. It’s a great way to see where there might be communication gaps in your relationship and work on bridging those gaps.


This exercise involves repeating back what your spouse has just said to show that you were actually listening to them. It also helps to ensure that there was no misunderstanding of what was said.

The 5 Love Languages

Gary Chapman’s book The 5 Love Languages discusses different ways people give and receive love. If you and your spouse are unfamiliar with the 5 love languages, it might be a good idea to read the book together and learn more about how each of you expresses (and receives) love differently.

Signs Communication is Breaking Down

If you notice that your communication is breaking down, there are a few signs to look out for. Some common signs of communication breakdown in a marriage are:

  • Communication becomes one-sided
  • There is a lot of arguing and fighting
  • Communication is mainly done through yelling and screaming
  • One spouse is constantly withholding communication
  • Communication is mainly done through text or email

What to Do if Communication Breaks Down

If communication breaks down in your marriage, there are a few things you can do to try and improve things.

  1. Talk to your spouse about what’s going on. Communication breakdowns often happen because couples aren’t communicating effectively about what’s happening in their relationship. Try sitting down and talking with them about what’s been going on and why communication has been breaking down.
  2. Seek counseling. If talking to your spouse doesn’t help, consider seeking counseling from a therapist who can help you resolve your communication issues.
  3. Read books or articles about communication in marriage. There are many great books and articles about communication in marriage, and reading them can often give couples some helpful tips and insights into improving communication in their relationship.

Good Communication is Key to a Successful Relationship

Communication is essential in any relationship, especially in a marriage. Without communication, couples will find it difficult to understand each other and may even start to resent one another. These tips will help you and your spouse communicate more effectively and build a stronger foundation for your marriage.

Do you need help to improve communication in your marriage? We can help. Eagle Family Ministries is a non-profit marriage ministry focused on helping couple improve their marriage using Biblical principles. We offer several fun marriage retreats yearly at the beautiful Chateau On the Lake Resort in Branson, Missouri. We also offer relationship and pre-marital coaching. You can design a seminar for couples in your location. Let us know how we can help you. 479.464.4442